My current business challenge: Providing the right solution at exactly the right time

It’s Thanksgiving, so this post will be a little different. I’m going to tell you all about what I’ve been up to with my business. If you’re curious about how I do things behind the scenes, this is for you 🙂

How my business works

My income comes from two primary sources: Salary Negotiation Coaching and product sales (Fearless Salary Negotiation books and courses). The coaching business is doing well—I’m happy with both the volume and quality of clients I get to work with.

The product business has been doing alright, but I would like to grow that side of the business.

Obviously, selling more products means more revenue. That’s important since this is how I make my living.

But selling more products also means providing a valuable solution to an expensive problem ("How do I negotiate my salary without leaving anything on the table?" or "How do I get more job offers?") at the right time. I like helping people, and it’s frustrating that lots of people get some of the help I have to offer while never knowing about other ways I can help from 1-on-1 coaching to a full-on step-by-step DIY guide to negotiating a job offer.

Slow and steady progress

My newsletter will cross 10,000 subscribers by the end of the week. I can hardly believe I just wrote that number. It seems crazy to me, especially considering my newsletter had only about 2,400 subscribers at the beginning of 2017.

The business-y way to describe that is, "My marketing efforts have been effective." I mostly focus on content marketing—writing long, detailed articles designed to teach people how to do difficult things by following a process. Most of my newsletter subscribers found me through an article I wrote.

That’s the thing I’m best at, so that’s where I focus.

Where I need to get better is at articulating the value of salary negotiation and giving folks the the opportunity to buy products and services to help them negotiate higher salaries and get more job offers.

The business-y way to describe that is, "I need to get better at Sales." On one hand, I feel a little uncomfortable saying that. On the other hand, "Sales" is a key part of any business.

The timing problem

My primary Sales challenge is that most of the people who find me are looking for a specific tool to negotiate their salary and they are on a very tight timeline to respond to a job offer.

I call this "The timing problem" because there’s such a small window between "job offer in hand" and "compensation package finalized". For a long time, the challenge was simply enabling those people to find me when they need help. Over the past year or so, I’ve gotten pretty good at that part as I write better articles on salary negotiation and related topics (this is how I know my Marketing efforts are paying off).

The issue is that the folks who find my articles and other tools are in such a hurry to respond to their job offer that most of my advice gets to them after they’ve already finished negotiating. They may not even know that they could have purchased products or services to help with all other aspects of their negotiation and done even better (this is how I know I need to work on Sales).

My current focus

So once a new person finds Fearless Salary Negotiation by searching for help on a specific topic, I need to find a way to make it crystal clear that there’s a lot more help available, and I have to convey that message very quickly (in 24-48 hours or less).

I haven’t worked out the details, but I need to move faster and communicate more when new people find me. This is tough for me because I don’t want to bother people—I want to help them. I realize this sounds cheesy, but it’s true: If I were just trying to make money, I never would’ve quit my day job two years ago.

Instead of saying, "Here is a free thing to help a little bit, good luck!" and then waiting a day and saying, "Here’s a tip to help negotiate your salary" and then another day and "Here’s another tip!", I need to do something more like:

Here is a free tool to help negotiate your salary – we’re going to move quickly because you probably have an offer in hand and there’s a lot I need to share with you. If you want help right now, here’s where to get it and here’s the monetary value of that help.

These are the key things to consider when negotiating your salary. I’m going to share insight into each of those things over the next few days. We’re going to move fast, so buckle up!

If I can figure this out, I’ll be able to help a lot more people get paid what they’re worth and my business will grow. This is the kind of challenge I love, and it’s why I do what I do.

So that’s where I’m at with my business. Now I’m off to bake a couple of pecan pies for Thanksgiving 🙂


UPDATE: My first attempt at solving this problem is The Salary Negotiation Crash Course. It’s a focused course to help folks respond to a job offer in less than 90 minutes. My intuition is that this could be exactly what people are looking for and it could be a turning point for my business. Only time will tell.

Tough career advice over lunch at a cheap BBQ joint

“What are you doing for lunch today? Wanna go to Sonny’s?”

I was a Project Manager on a team of about 8 people at a company of about 30 people.

Still, it was a pretty big surprise that my boss wanted to go get cheap BBQ for lunch.

I had been doing pretty well, impressing clients and even winning some awards. My co-workers seemed to like working with me. I tried to give good input and share my opinions in the right situations.

But I could sense this wasn’t a back-patting sort of lunch—Humble Pie would probably be on the menu.

Sure enough, my boss had one central message for me:

“Your input in our team meetings is often critical but thoughtful. And that’s good—we need that kind of input to keep improving as a team. But the way you share your input and accept feedback could be more collaborative and less harsh.”

He told me my body language was negative. I didn’t seem to be engaging to find solutions so much as simply venting about my frustrations. When my work was scrutinized, I wasn’t open to suggestions that could help me improve.

This was pretty hard to hear, and I didn’t take it well at first (reinforcing his reason for sharing this feedback).

But the more we talked, the more I understood that the actual words I spoke were only part of the equation. We work with people, not robots, so our facial expressions, body language, and tone all contribute to how others perceive us.

I began to see that he was simply advising me to get out of my own way. By seeming standoffish and resisting input, I was making others less likely to offer feedback that could be valuable for me and our team.

I made two major adjustments that I still use today:

  • I forced myself to actively listen to all feedback without passing judgement in the moment.
  • I decided that I would not criticize something without having at least one thoughtful solution to the problem.

If you’ve sat in a meeting with someone who has no idea what they’re talking about, then you know how hard these things are to do in practice.

So it took a while to make these adjustments, but they paid off in spades.

It became easier to solve difficult business problems because I really listened when my colleagues identified things we could improve.

I also found that I had access to more unique opportunities because I became known as a thoughtful collaborator who could work with a team to solve difficult problems. Those opportunities helped me get promoted faster and get better paying jobs with more responsibility.

I’m glad my boss took me to lunch and shared difficult feedback over cheap BBQ that day. My career has been much better for it.

Something to think about

If you took yourself to lunch to share one piece of career advice, what would it be? That might be a good place to focus your energy as we head into the home stretch of 2017.

I bought this painting

My friend Rick is a an artist who I met in Charleston earlier this year when I went up there to run a 10k race. I was running the race with Rick’s son, so we all stayed at his house in Charleston while we were in town.

While we were staying at Rick’s house, I saw a painting that I really liked. I didn’t say much at the time because I wasn’t sure if it was ok to ask about buying art from an artists’ house.

But then Rick brought several of his pieces down to Gainesville for an art show, and that piece was among them. It was for sale, so I made an offer, which eventually turned into an agreement. I’m now the proud owner of this original piece:

Here’s the weird thing: It’s a mystery why I like this piece. Rick had lots of great pieces at the show, but this particular piece really speaks to me.

Why? Who knows!

All I know is that I saw it, liked it, and eventually bought it.

I used to think hiring managers felt this way about job candidates. They had a job to fill, they posted a job opening online, they got a stack of resumes, they talked to a few candidates, and one of the candidates just seemed like the right fit.

It seemed mysterious, almost magical.

But then I spent a year building a team of 25 Support Engineers, which meant reviewing scores of resumes and interviewing lots and lots of candidates.

The team we built was very good at what they did, and I learned there’s a very concrete, tactical side to interviewing, which is unlike evaluating a piece of art.

Let’s go back to something I said earlier:

“They had a job to fill, they posted a job description online, they got a stack of resumes…”

Did you catch that?

The hiring manager isn’t hoping for a mysterious connection with a piece of art. They’re hoping to find a candidate with attributes clearly articulated in their job description. They want a candidate who can help the company or team meet its goals and overcome challenges they’re experiencing.

With a job description and a little research, you can position yourself as the candidate for a specific job. It’s almost like you can peer into their mind to figure out what sort of art they’ll like so you can present it right back to them.

Interviewing can be intimidating, but it isn’t mysterious. Your goal in your interviews is to make sure they know that you are that person they’re looking for.

My comprehensive guide to answering interview questions shows you how to position yourself as the candidate they want to hire. Even if you’re not interviewing right now, you should bookmark this for later. And if you know someone who has job interviews coming up, do them a favor and send them this link:

>> Click here to read my guide to crushing your job interviews

How I prepped for hurricane Irma

Hurricane Irma smacked the state of Florida last week, and I live in Gainesville, FL, directly in the path of most of the trackers’ projections before Irma made landfall.

When Irma was in the Atlantic, it ramped up to a Category 5 hurricane, which is a pretty scary prospect for us Floridians. A Cat 5 hurricane can do a lot of damage, so it’s important to make sure you’re prepared.

Here’s a summary of my #HurricanePrep the day before Irma arrived:

  • My buddies and I played a round of disc golf—I shot one over, which is pretty good considering I haven’t played in a year or two.
  • Then we went to Wal-Mart and stocked up on the essentials. Here’s what we had in our cart:

Groceries for hurricane Irma prep

  • Then we went to Satchel’s pizza for a Satch Pan (Satchel’s take on a deep dish).
  • I moved anything that looked like a projectile out of my yard and into my laundry room.
  • I made arrangements to ride out the storm at a friend’s house where the power almost never goes out.
  • We watched football.

I know, I know: It sure doesn’t look like we took Irma very seriously. The truth is that we probably OVER-prepared for Irma given what we knew at the time.

Prepping for the right things

The worst part of a hurricane is the storm surge, but storm surges require lots of water (like an ocean). Gainesville is land-locked, which significantly mitigates the risks of a hurricane because we’re unaffected by storm surges and hurricanes have to cross a lot of land to get to us. As hurricanes move over land, they weaken, so they’re much weaker when they get to Gainesville than they were when they made landfall.

What I didn’t mention above is that my friends and I are all life-long Floridians, and we’ve seen and prepped for lots of hurricanes. Since we have so much experience with them, we can filter out all the noise coming from the Weather Channel Hype Machine™?, and we know that there are just a few important things we need to do any time a hurricane blows through town:

  • Get some water
  • Get enough non-perishable food and a few batteries to last a few days in case the stores close
  • Find a decent house to shelter in place (preferably one that doesn’t usually lose power in storms)

So when hurricane season rolls around, we know all we need to do is a few key things to make sure we’re ready. As long as we do those things, we’ll be ok for most hurricanes that reach Gainesville.

Irma flooded streets and downed a few trees, but not much else. This is 34th St here in Gainesville – a main road that goes north and south right through the middle of town:

A Gainesville, FL street flooded during Irma

And here’s the view from my house looking down my driveway. You can see the water line in my yard—fortunately my house is raised above the street just a bit!

My house after hurricane Irma

Asking for a raise boils down to a few key steps

Asking for a raise can feel overwhelming. But in my experience as a hiring manager, I’ve learned that there are just a few key things you need to do to to prepare ahead of time. If you focus on these things, then process becomes a whole lot simpler and a whole lot less overwhelming:

  • Pick a time when there’s budget available
  • Ask for a specific salary
  • Show how you’ve already earned the raise
  • Follow up

When you prepare well and take the right steps, then asking for a raise is much easier for you and your manager.

Not sure where to start when it comes to asking for a raise or promotion? Fearless Salary Negotiation will show you how to estimate your market value, and has a step-by-step process you can use to get your next raise or promotion.

The Tick-Tock of my BBC News Channel Interview on Live International TV

I got up and went to Starbucks like I do almost every morning. That’s where I go to get some coffee, catch up on the news (specifically, that means reading Twitter), and plan my day. I like having a routine, especially in the morning, because it reduces the number of decisions I have to make when I’m sleepy and my brain isn’t fully functional.

8:00 AM Eastern Time

So I got my coffee, found a table by the window, and popped into Tweetbot to see what was happening. I saw the little dot that said I had a new mention, so I checked it.

That’s what I saw. The BBC? Interesting! I replied right away and we did the “follow each other so we can DM” dance.

8:05 AM Eastern Time

I wrapped up coffee time and headed in to my office, which is about 2 minutes from Starbucks. It would take a few minutes for Tammi to follow me back and DM me, so I figured I might as well move to my office so I could set up for my interview.

At this moment, I wasn’t even sure what kind of interview we were talking about. Most of the time when I get this sort of request, it’s for either an email interview or a phone interview, and those usually end up published online.

So I was thinking this might be a phone interview that might be aired on TV or transcribed for quotes for online, TV, or radio use.

To be clear: I had no idea I was going on national TV soon.

8:17 AM Eastern Time

Tammi DMs me her email address and lets me know that they’re on air in 45 minutes, and would I be free then?

Now I know this is a live interview. I’m still not sure if it’s audio-only or video. I’m assuming audio-only.

8:21 AM Eastern Time

Tammi emails me with a summary of what they’re talking about and asks some questions to give me a sense of what sorts of thing I might be asked on the air.

She also mentions that it would be great if we could do a live interview for TV, and asks if I have Skype.

“…LIVE FOR TV.” ?

I confirm that will work and answer the questions she asked to show that I know what I’m talking about.

As an aside, I’ve found that any time I’m asked questions about my subject, giving very thorough answers is almost always the best way to go. It demonstrates my expertise and gives the asker as much information as they need so that can pare it down to whatever they were looking for. Over-delivering in this particular area has gotten me a ton of good opportunities to contribute to large outlets.

We also exchange a few more emails about logistics like my geographic location.

Meanwhile, I start setting up my office for a Live TV interview. I cleared my whiteboard, raised my laptop on a pile of books so the webcam was eye level, set up two super-cheap desk lamps I keep handy for key and fill lighting, and began testing everything to make sure it looked and sounded ok.

8:34 AM Eastern Time

Tammi asks for my phone number so a producer can reach out to me to start getting ready to go on air.

I continue monkeying with my setup so it looks as professional as possible on such short notice.

8:42 AM Eastern Time

A producer from the BBC News Channel calls me to confirm some details and tell me what’s going to happen.

This call lasts one minute.

I continue fiddling with technical stuff and testing things to make sure everything works. I mess with my bookshelf so it’s not totally barren. I drink water to make sure my throat isn’t dry. I fire up my lights so they can warm up in time. I talk to myself out loud a lot so my voice warms up as well (I’ve been awake for about an hour at this point, so I’m still feeling and sounding sleepy).

I log into Skype and hang out waiting for the BBC to call.

8:58 AM Eastern Time

The BBC calls me on Skype. A different producer this time.

He does some basic checks to make sure everything is ok. I’m on camera now and planted in front of my laptop. I won’t move a muscle for the next 12 minutes.

I don’t see anyone on the other side, but I can hear Shaun Ley interviewing a guest and talking. There’s a commercial playing.

9:06 AM Eastern Time

Shaun Ley is talking about me. Now he’s talking to me, but I can’t see him. All I see is a green dot on my MacBook, and some stars from the bright lights in my face.

Shaun asks me some questions and I answer them while I continue staring at the green dot.

9:09 AM Eastern Time

Shaun and I are finished talking and a producer thanks me for my time. We disconnect on Skype and my 15 minutes is over.

In only an hour and nine minutes, I had spoken with three BBC producers over four different mediums, plus talked with Shaun Ley on Live TV.

But my time with the BBC wasn’t quite over.

1:06 PM Eastern Time

Here we go again!

This one was a slower burn, but the tick-tock is still interesting.

I exchanged DMs with Sophie and sent my phone number so we could chat about the interview.

1:34 PM Eastern Time

Sophie says she’s calling soon.

1:45 PM Eastern Time

Sophie calls for an exploratory chat where she asked several questions about different aspects of salary negotiation and the gender pay disparity.

The interview would be quite a bit later in the day, so I think she was trying to get as much information as possible to enable them to ask questions that dovetailed with their programming while complementing other discussions they would have over the next several hours.

We wrap up after 16 minutes and I’m told the interview should be at 6:05 PM Eastern Time, and that they’ll call me a few minutes before that.

6:01 Eastern Time

A BBC 5 Live producer calls to make sure everything is set up. We do some technical tests to make sure they can hear me and then I am in the queue.

I can hear Stephen Nolan talking with a Sky reporter and the conversation is a little… contentious? BBC News and Sky are competitors, so this is to be expected.

I confess I was a little nervous that I might be walking into a tricky situation, so my guard was up a bit.

The interview with the Sky reporter went a little longer than I expected, but then I could hear Stephen transitioning to our interview.

About 6:15 PM Eastern Time

I’m on! This was a much less difficult interview logistically, but the questions were more challenging. We didn’t have as much time as I expected, but it was a good interview overall.

6:23 PM Eastern Time

The interview was over, the producer thanked me for coming on, and that was it.

Here’s my BBC 5 Live radio interview:

Dodgin’ storms in the U.S.A.

Two Sets of Fireworks

As we finished the last of the vanilla ice cream and blueberry cobbler, it began to rain. And not just a light drizzle – a pretty serious summer downpour, even by Florida standards.

We hadn’t seen this one coming on the radar and then it was right on top of us, soaking everything only 30 minutes before we were supposed to take the boat out to the Gulf to watch the fireworks.

What we had here was a classic Florida pop-up shower, which is usually a quick-hitter sort of thing. You don’t see them coming, then you get drenched for a few minutes, then they’re gone.

We had a decision to make: Go out on the boat as planned, or watch the fireworks from the porch? Although there was a pretty dark group of clouds behind us on the horizon, we decided to head out and chance it. Even if we got hit by a couple small pop-up showers, at least we’d get a great view of the fireworks.

As you can see behind my friend Jenn and me, the sky wasn’t too bad as we made our way out. We barely made it out to the Gulf before they blocked the channel, and we went to our spot where we would watch the show that would begin in about 45 minutes.

But then, that dark gray storm began drifting in from the west. And we noticed another storm to the north. We started getting a little nervous: Those weren’t little pop-up storms; they looked pretty nasty.

But our intrepid captain had a plan: “I’ll shoot the gaps!” He told us how he would hop around to avoid this storm, then that one, then pop down to this other gap, then back over and we would be fine.

And then the rain started.

No problem! We would just “shoot the gaps!” So we punched it and got to the first gap. Nice! The sky was actually pretty blue and the rain stopped for a minute.

But then it started up again, so we had to try to find another gap. This time, instead of following the coast, we headed seaward. But the gap we were heading for closed, the rain got heavier and colder, and the sky got darker.

Uh oh. In hindsight, playing Boat Frogger with thunderstorms probably wasn’t the best idea. Hindsight is 20/20, of course.

The ponchos and towels came out, albeit a little late. I was wearing cotton shorts and a t-shirt. There were not enough ponchos. Did I mention the rain was cold?

We spotted another gap and headed that way. This time, we arrived in what felt like a sort of clearing. It was dusk, so the sky above us was dark blue and calm with a few whispy clouds. But this was little solace because we were now surrounded by storms on all sides—there were no more gaps to shoot and it seemed like our present gap was closing even as we arrived.

Justin, who was huddled in a sort of parka fort on the floor of the boat, got out his iPhone 7—they’re water resistant now!—to take a look at the radar and see where our gaps went.

Sure enough, we were in a teenie-tiny gap which was literally surrounded by red storms. This was not good. Red basically means “THIS IS VERY HEAVY RAIN AND WIND! YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE OUT IN THIS STUFF!” But we were out in this stuff. On a boat. In the Gulf. At dusk.

Suddenly, there was a lot of lightning and things went from bad to worse.

I grew up in Florida. Heavy rainstorms happen here all the time. In the summer, they happen pretty much daily. So being stuck in a rainstorm in a boat on the Gulf isn’t like FANTASTIC or anything, but it’s not too far away from what a typical Floridian experiences once every year or so as they make an afternoon run to Publix.

Of course, as a Floridian who grew up with frequent intense rainstorms and hurricanes, I also learned to have a healthy respect for lightning because it will kill you. This lightning was probably 5–10 miles away, which meant we were in striking distance.

Where do I go from “Uh oh.”?

Things got nastier still.

“I think we should go south!”, Justin shouted from his parka fort as he stared at the ever-updating radar. Then he showed us the radar, which showed that things were about to get considerably worse. But maybe there was a gap down south, so we headed south.

As we were heading to our new southern destination, Justin showed us the latest radar. The area we had just evacuated was now PURPLE. This is worse than red. According to Weather Underground, we were experiencing the second-most-intense level of rain they measure. On a boat. In the gulf. At dusk. Plus there was lightning everywhere.

The rain was steady, though less intense than it had been earlier in our ordeal. But now we were literally surrounded on all by sides by dark skies and lightning.

Here’s a video of one of the bigger, more surprising strikes. You can hear our intrepid captain’s concern excitement as he and his dad marvel at Mother Nature’s fireworks as she tried to kill us.

This meant that although we were hopefully headed for a gap, we first had to head directly into a lightning storm. Still, the floorboard-parka-fort command center said to go south, so we went south.

After 10 or 15 minutes of heading into a lightning storm at full throttle, we found the gap the radar had foretold. It was near the shore, which happened to be one of the only stretches of uncolonized beach in the area. It was beautiful and eerie. The clouds had dissipated overhead, so we were in a sort of void, surrounded by lightning storms, next to an empty beach as the sky got darker.

We waited and watched the radar, hoping that no more storms would pop up and that the storm we had escaped would continue moving westward into the Gulf.

After 20 minutes or so, a few small fireworks popped just inland of us—a good sign. The gap we were in began to grow so that we could see several miles up the shore to the original position we had abandoned earlier.

We could see that the people who had stuck it out were getting absolutely hammered by an enormous storm. The sky above them was black, constantly lit by lightning strikes. As bad as our situation had been, theirs may have been worse.

More fireworks began dotting the shoreline to our north, and we consulted the radar to confirm the worst had passed. The red was all to our west, so we began creeping northward along the sleepy shore, dodging the beach’s outstretched piers as they reached for us.

Things still looked pretty bad by the channel where we naively began our journey—dark skies, lightning and rain—but then we saw some bigger fireworks that seemed like they would be part of the big show. Our technicolor lighthouse showed the way, so we pushed the throttle, heading back to our starting point.

When we finally cut the engine a few hundred yards short of the police boats and buoys that cordoned off the splash zone, we got to see not one, but two spectacular fireworks shows: In the foreground, the man-made one we had come to see; in the background, the lightning that had chased us from gap to gap, into the Gulf, then south, and finally back to the shore we followed home.

Two Sets of Fireworks

Take advantage of the Summer lull

I live in Gainesville, FL, which is a college town featuring the University of Florida. And I would be remiss if I didn’t include this to celebrate our first College World Series National Championship: Go Gators!

But enough about how great it is to be a Florida Gator. Let me tell you about my #SummerOfFun.

Gainesville is a strange place because more than half of the city disappears every summer as students head home for summer break. All of a sudden the traffic dissipates, restaurant wait times collapse, and we locals have free reign for a few months.

This also means that most organized activities stop during the summer, and we’re left to our own devices when it comes to leisure time.

Fortunately, a few of my friends have pretty serious FOMO, which means we do something pretty much every night. Here are a few of the things we’ve done so far this summer:

  • Watched the NBA finals
  • Watched the NHL finals
  • Played Spades (we only got through like half a game before we…)
  • Played King of Tokyo, which is extremely fun and you should play it although I can’t ever seem to win (UPDATE: Winnar!)
  • Watched John Wick 2 (exactly what you’d expect)
  • Played Scattergories (Winnar!)
  • Played Cranium (Two-time Winnar!)

It’s a lot of fun. And that’s just a partial list from the past couple weeks—we’re only about half way home.

I realize your summer probably doesn’t quite look like my #SummerOfFun. But I do have a point!

Summers are different

There’s a distinct shift in tone and energy during the summer. Personally, this means #SummerOfFun ramps up for me. Professionally, I’ve noticed a similar lull as things just move more slowly.

People go on vacation. Deadlines become malleable. The office gets quieter.

It’s the perfect time to slow down and recuperate, and it’s a great time think about your plan for the rest of the year.

It’s hard to stop and take time to think about your career and what you’ll accomplish next. But the summer lull makes it a little easier to step back and make a plan.

Take advantage of the summer lull

This summer, take some time to do a little market research to see if your salary is in line for your industry. Maybe it’s time to start planning to ask for your next raise. Or consider the next move on your career path. Maybe it’s time to start planning for a promotion.

Take advantage of the summer lull to recuperate and make a plan as you head into the into the second half of 2017.

Not sure where to start when it comes to asking for a raise or promotion? Fearless Salary Negotiation will show you how to estimate your market value, and has a step-by-step process you can use to get your next raise or promotion.

How I get the most out of business conferences

My MicroConf talk

I’m writing this from my hotel room at MicroConf, which is a conference for bootstrappers and entrepreneurs who are building (mostly) solo businesses like mine. I’m here because some of the smartest people I know—and lots of smart people I don’t yet know—are here, and I want to learn from them.

But I’m also pretty introverted (did I mention I’m holed up in my hotel room writing this?) and I find conferences and large groups of people to be overwhelming.

Here’s a pretty candid video of me a couple nights into MicroConf:

I'm living alone!

“So how will you learn from them if you’re hiding in your hotel room all week?”

Good question!

How I get the most out of business conferences

I’m very comfortable talking with one or two people at a time, so I try to find opportunities to talk with small groups of people. Before any conference, I make a list of the following:

    • A few people I want to talk to while I’m there.
  • A couple big questions I hope to answer.

And then my entire mission for the conference is to find and talk to those people and find answers to those questions.

That’s it! I’ll attend the seminars, go to some meetups, but I’m always trying to find a way to talk to those people and find answers to those questions.

My two big questions for MicroConf

1. How do I reach more people who would benefit from Fearless Salary Negotiation? I’m very happy with the products that I’ve built, and testimonials from successful customers keep pouring in. I need to learn how to reach more potential customers.

2. How can I better communicate what Fearless Salary Negotiation is to folks who read my articles, download free resources, and take my email courses? It’s one thing to make new people aware of Fearless Salary Negotiation, but it’s another thing entirely to help them decide if it’s the right investment for them.

“Ok, but you’re at this bootstrapper conference. That might work there, but what about my business conference with a thousand people?”

I actually developed this strategy when I had a full-time job working for a larger company. I would think about which managers in the company might be working on projects where I could contribute, then I would just look for opportunities to talk to them about those projects. It always helped to have a couple of thoughtful questions ready to go so I could make the most of the conversation.

How’s it going so far?

Pretty good! I’ve already spoken to two of the people on my list! I still have a few more to go, but it’s already been a successful conference for me.

If you attend business conferences, you should read my book Fearless Salary Negotiation. Can’t hurt to be well compensated for all those trips, right?

The three biggest mistakes I made in my first 10k race

Cooper River Bridge 10k starting line

I visited Charleston, SC for my first 10k race last weekend and it was a lot of fun. If I’m being honest, my main motivation was to eat lots of delicious Charleston food, and my penance for all that delicious food was running a 10k.

“Josh, we’re going to run a 10k in a few weeks, and you should come!”
“Meh. I’m not really into running.”
“It’s in Charleston, and we’re going to like five good restaurants while we’re there.”
“I’m in!”

My decision was handsomely rewarded with absurdly delicious stuff like this…

Pawpaw biscuits
Pawpaw biscuits with pimento spread and honey butter

And this…

Lewis Barbecue rib
A rib from Lewis Barbeque

Since I was in town, I figured I might a well run the race right? I finished in a mediocre 56:02. Still, that was a full 6 minutes faster than my only practice run so that’s something. I started training about eight weeks ago after not running at all for…well, I honestly can’t remember the last time I ran a mile before that.

It was a great experience and I’m glad I did it. But I also made some rookie mistakes.

I started too slow

I was worried that my adrenaline might make me jump out to a too-fast start and burn out early, so I took it easy for the first two miles. What I didn’t realize was that the sheer size of the crowd was enough of a damper to keep me from burning out early.

Here’s my view from the starting line:

Cooper River Bridge Run 2017 Starting Line
The starting line at the Cooper River Bridge Run

It wasn’t that crowded the entire time, but it was still pretty crowded.

This mistake cost me a few minutes.

I over-estimated how hard the bridge would be

The race featured the Cooper River bridge in Charleston, SC. I heard it was a pretty rough ascent and I didn’t want to wear myself out before I got there, so I took it easy until the bridge.

I kept waiting for it to get harder as we climbed, but it never did. When I finally got to the top of the bridge, I realized it just wasn’t that bad. Oops.

This mistake cost me a minute or so.

I wasn’t aggressive enough

40,000 people ran this race. I assumed it would be crowded at first, then thin out as the race went along. But it never thinned out, and there were even a few serious bottlenecks along the route so we nearly came to a stand-still a couple times.

Here’s one of the bottlenecks – this is the off-ramp from the bridge, about 3.5 miles in:

Cooper River Bridge Run Offramp
Cooper River Bridge off-ramp (Image source)

The better strategy was to start fast and aggressively pass people as often as possible.

I didn’t realize this until the half-way point at the top of the bridge, where I started slipping through slower groups instead of waiting for an opening to go around them. I employed a pretty sweet sideways-hop-jog, and I even used a swim move a couple of times (thankfully, there is no video evidence that I’m aware of).

This mistake cost me a minute or so.

BONUS mistake: We didn’t get an amazing post-race lunch

This wasn’t so much a rookie mistake as a lack of planning. We got to stroll around downtown Charleston for a while after the race, but we took so long that we missed our chance to hit a really solid post-race lunch spot.

Our post-race lunch was ok, but it wasn’t quite world-class-Charleston-food good.

We kind of made up for this by getting Jeni’s ice cream twice while we were in town, but this isn’t technically “Charleston food” so we don’t get full credit here.

This mistake cost (saved?) me a thousand calories or so.

Experience is the best teacher

My training partners, who had all run races before, gave me some helpful pre-race tips. I trained pretty hard. I had a plan going in.

I still made rookie mistakes.

I can’t beat myself up too much because I don’t think there was any other way to learn these lessons. Part of being a rookie is making rookie mistakes.

Next time I’ll start faster, temper my fear of the unknown, and aggressively pass people. It should be easy to improve for my next race.

The part where I tie this into your career

You saw this coming, right? All three of the mistakes I made in the 10k are mistakes you could be making right now. Here’s how this story can help you take control of your career.

1. Don’t start slow.

I coach a lot of folks who are interviewing for their first job. Once they get a job offer, most of them say something like, “This is my first job, so I don’t really have leverage to negotiate.”

That’s just not true. If you have skills that are valuable enough to command a paycheck, you have leverage to negotiate your starting salary. If you’ve been working for a while, learning new skills and proactively taking on new responsibilities, you have leverage to negotiate a raise.

You will have more leverage later in your career, and you’ll make more money later in your career. But you can also make more money early on with the right tactics.

2. It’s not as hard as you think.

Just like I psyched myself out before I even got to the bridge, you could psych yourself out before you negotiate your starting salary or ask for a raise.

Keep accumulating responsibilities, make sure others notice the work you’re doing, and ask to be compensated for those new responsibilities. It’s not necessarily easy to do this, but it’s not as hard as you might think!

3. Stay aggressive.

If you hang back and wait for great opportunities to present themselves, you could be waiting a long time and you will probably miss out on lots of opportunities throughout your career.

You should be pushing past your peers, working to proactively move to the next stage. If you keep your foot on the gas, continuously taking on new responsibilities, you’ll get many more opportunities for advancement and earn more money throughout your career.

The good news is that even if you’re making these mistakes right now, you can correct them. The sooner you correct them, the more opportunities you’ll find to take on more responsibility and get paid what you’re worth.

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6 Bootstrapping lessons learned from a 25+ year veteran business owner

“So how are things with the book?”

The context for this question from my Dad? I’d been up and down all week about bootstrapping my business. So I told him the plan and told him about the opportunities coming up (both detailed at the end of the article). “So I should have a much better idea of the potential here within the next month.”

Dad listened, got the gist, then class was in session.

He and my Stepmom run a business cleaning houses. How much could I learn about bootstrapping an online info-product business from someone who cleans houses every day?

Quite a bit, it turns out! I had no idea how sophisticated their business was until Dad explained it to me.

Their overall business model

Let me describe their business in a little more jargon-y way:

  • Business model: recurring work They run a productized service business with a recurring revenue model consisting of several pricing tiers. The most common is monthly recurring, but they also have bi-weekly and weekly recurring accounts.
  • Business model: one-time work They also have a one-time consultation and delivery model for one-off projects. They ramp these up and down seasonally depending on how the recurring part of the business is going. They acquire these one-time engagements from other business owners who are always anxious to engage whenever possible (because their work is superior).
  • Marketing and Customer Acquisition Their customer acquisition model is simple: They only work with word-of-mouth referrals from existing customers. They do not offer a free trial.
  • Ad spend They do not advertise. They did advertise in the beginning of their business, but it’s been 15+ years since then
  • Customer Onboarding Their onboarding process is a three-phase approach based on the highest priorities identified during a new-client consultation. They set a price for the first three engagements, identify the most pressing needs for the customer and address those needs in descending order during those first three engagements. At the end of the third engagement, they do a post-mortem on the first three sessions, determine whether they want to continue working with the client, and quote the client their custom recurring price if they want to keep working with that client.
  • Customer retention Once they acquire a client, their churn is extremely low, and they fire clients about as often as the client ends the relationship.
  • Margins and sustainability When they began the business, they scaled it up quickly, hiring employees to provide the service (essentially an agency model), but they decided the margins were too small and carried too much risk (payroll and legal). They scaled back to just the two of them. That was 25 years ago.
  • Revenue They support their family (my Dad, Stepmom, and three siblings) with their business, and are able to ramp work up and down depending on one-off financial needs (new water heater).

To repeat: This is a residential cleaning service. They clean houses every day.

Lessons learned from Dad and Stepmom’s early days bootstrapping an offline business

Here are the things I learned or remembered during our chat. We mostly focused on the early stages when they were starting the business and trying to find the right model. We didn’t talk as much about the steady-state (last 15+ years).

It’s a grind

Bootstrapping a business is hard, and no two businesses are alike. That means it’s going to take a long time to figure out what the offering is, what the price should be, how to find customers, how to retain them, and how to onboard them.

Lesson: Give it time. However much time you think it will take multiplied by 10 is a good starting point.

How they optimize for customer quantity and quality while minimizing fixed costs and the impact of churn

They went through several pricing models before they found the one that worked for them.

Their first onboarding process was to charge a high fee for the initial consultation and cleaning, do a complete top-to-bottom cleaning to get the house into a clean state, then clean it monthly for a lower fee.

That model seems solid, but the problem is the initial cost was too much for many clients and they just weren’t willing to take that kind of risk without knowing what sort of quality to expect. So that’s why they switched to the “first three engagements” model. They could take a guess at a good fee, handle the client’s most important needs first, get a feel for the relationship and then hit reset after the introduction period to set the long-term price or disengage.

This is ingenious. They get more clients this way, and they don’t have to work extra hard to get them onboarded. Yet they’re addressing the client’s most urgent needs first, demonstrating early value and making the client extra happy. The cost of acquisition is lower and the initial cost for the client to engage is lower. Everyone wins.

Lesson: Their onboarding is designed to address the biggest pain points first while allowing them to learn more about the client’s needs before taking them on and setting a recurring price.

They settled on a monthly recurring model because it’s better for their customers and for their business. They initially wanted weekly recurring revenue, but most people don’t need their house cleaned weekly and that carried more risk for any given client. Since people’s houses don’t get as dirty in a week as they do in a month, they couldn’t charge as much for each weekly engagement. They didn’t have to work as hard for each engagement, but remember they’re selling time, not effort. The more they make per unit of time, the better off they are. (There are also a lot of fixed costs like travel time and gas with each engagement, which means they need to get as much money per engagement as possible.)

Looking at numbers is helpful here because it shows how clever their shift was, and how counterintuitive it must’ve been.

By doing weekly cleanings where the work they do is limited by the hours they have available, they can have only about a quarter as many customers at any given time as if they did monthly cleanings. And they can charge less money per engagement (because the house isn’t as dirty).

These numbers are made up because I don’t know what they charge.

Let’s say they have 20 customers and they clean them all weekly. For simplicity, they charge $100 per cleaning per week. This means their max possible weekly revenue is $2,000, and we’ll call max possible monthly revenue $8,000.

If they go to a monthly recurring model, a few interesting things happen. First, they can’t have as many customers because each cleaning takes a little longer. Let’s say each cleaning takes 25% more time/effort since the houses are dirtier. That means they can only do 15 engagements per week, or 60 engagements per month.

But they can also charge more for each engagement because the houses need more done—they’re dirtier. Instead of $100 per engagement, let’s say they can charge $150. So now their weekly revenue goes up from $2,000 to $2,250 and their monthly revenue goes up to $9,000. Sweet!

This is better for clients, too. Using the weekly model, a client would pay $400 for their house to be clean for a month. With the monthly model, they’re paying only $150 for a month of clean house. Yes, the house gets gradually dirtier for that month, but that “slightly dirtier on average” state is more than compensated for by paying less than half the monthly costs.

It also turned out that these customers were higher-quality customers. “We initially offered a special of like $40 for a cleaning just to get their business. But those customers didn’t respect us or our work.” Those low-price, introductory customers required more work and were more difficult to satisfy. When they raised their prices, they got better customers.

Lesson: The best model for them was a monthly recurring services model with more customers as opposed to fewer customers on a weekly recurring schedule. This helped them reduce risk, work with higher-quality customers, and bring in more revenue.

Quick aside about price sensitivity and customer quality

I’m adding my two cents here, but I think this is important. Their business is cleaning houses. More precisely, Gary Vaynerchuck would say their business is offering time arbitrage for busy people who have a high opportunity cost for their time. The more someone values their time, the more they’re happy to pay to use that time doing something else.

By charging more for this service, they were selecting customers who valued the service more. This means fewer customers who all put a greater value on the service.

From a different perspective: If you were offering to sell an hour of your time, would you rather sell it to a person who values their own time at $40 an hour or a person who values their time at $100 an hour? I would rather sell to the person who values their time at $100 an hour because I can charge a lot more that way.

Same unit of time, more money.

End aside

But wait, there’s more! With monthly customers at a higher price, their margins also go up quite a bit because those fixed costs—travel time and gas—are only incurred 15 times instead of 20 per week. They get more revenue, less travel time, less gas used.

Another benefit of having more customers: If they lose one customer, they lose less of their overall business. If they have 20 weekly customers and they lose one customer, that’s 5% of their business. But if they have 60 customers, each on a monthly contract, one customer is less than 2% of their business.

Lesson: Charging higher prices for monthly engagements improves their margins and reduces customer attrition risk.

Advertising

They tried several different advertising tactics when they were getting the business off the ground. Now, they don’t advertise at all, but they had to advertise to get started.

Flyering

When I was nine or 10, I vividly remember flyering for the business in parking lots. They would get a box of flyers printed and cut, then we would all drive to a parking lot—usually in a strip mall or grocery store parking lot—and put a flyer under the driver’s side windshield wiper of every car in the lot.

Turns out this wasn’t very effective, so they stopped doing it after a while. The quantity and quality of customers they acquired weren’t great.

Yellow pages

So they tried a different channel: The Yellow Pages. From what I gather, this was the biggest investment they made by far, and it was a big risk for them. They had to sign a year-long contract with the phonebook, and the monthly cost was a substantial portion of their revenue at the time. “We really couldn’t afford it. But we thought it would bring in more customers, so we took a risk.”

That risk paid huge dividends and the phone rang off the hook all year. They found a channel that worked, and they got more work than they could handle. That allowed them to start going all-in on their pricing strategy, raising prices and selecting for better customers.

By the end of that year, they had mostly moved to the monthly model, they got rid of the low-cost introductory cleanings, and they started accepting new customers by word of mouth only. That was more than 15 years ago, and they haven’t advertised since.

Lesson: Test, test, test advertising and marketing channels. If one isn’t working, try another. If one is working, hunker down there for a while.

Logistics: optimizing the schedule

Another benefit of having more customers is it simplified the most challenging logistical problem they had: how to get to everyone. They live in Jacksonville, FL, which is the largest city by land-area in the country. “Largest city by land-area” is a nice bit of trivia, but it’s a huge pain when your job is to drive to houses all over the city.

Let’s go back to our earlier example. If they had only 20 customers, arranging them in a way to minimize travel time between jobs was very challenging. There are far more than 20 “areas of town” in Jacksonville, so they could spend most of their day driving from job to job. Clumping jobs by geography only worked if they got lucky. Maybe three or four customers in one area of town would be available on Tuesdays, but probably not.

But if they had 60 customers that were cleaned once a month, the chances were substantially higher that a trip to one area of town would put them near multiple customers. And since those customers only needed to be cleaned once a month, they could use many more days as slots for chunks of customers. For four customers in one area of town, maybe the first Tuesday of the month wouldn’t work, but the second Wednesday or the third Thursday might work just fine. It was much easier to clump customers geographically, saving lots of driving time and gas.

Lesson: Fixed costs—gas and time—were their greatest business expenses, and the business model that worked for them also happened to minimize those expenses—not a coincidence.

How this applies to my bootstrapped digital info-product business

This is all very interesting on its own (to me, anyway), but the whole conversation was in the context of me working to build a business around Fearless Salary Negotiation. Dad also happens to be an author, so he understands what it’s like to build a business and what it’s like to write and sell books.

So what were my takeaways from my chat with Dad?

It’s going to take a while

One trend I’ve noticed is that bootstrappers tend to artificially shrink their window of opportunity. They have an idea, start tinkering with it, then start a six-month shot clock to decide whether it’s going to work or not.

Why that’s happening is beyond the scope of this post, but it’s definitely happening. Building a business from scratch just takes time. You can’t rush it.

So, I need to be patient. It’s been about 18 months since I quit my day job to publish my book and video courses, and I have only recently moved from “creating products and building a product ladder” to “building a business to sell those products”. I often feel like I’m moving too slow or failing, but that’s just silly.

More specifically, I often look at what my income was at my day job and see how far I am from that right now. Then it feels like I’m wasting my time. I did five and a half years of undergraduate studies, worked about 10 years in an industry, and spent almost two and a half years getting my MBA.

What would it say about the value of my day job if it were easy to replace all of that income with a brand new business in just a few months?

Get customers, then raise prices

A very common, very useful mantra in my neck of the woods is: Charge more!

This is good advice, but I don’t think it applies to initial pricing. I’ve experimented with pricing quite a bit, and what I’ve found is that it’s best to start with a low-ish, reasonable price, get some sales, then slowly increase price and see what happens to sales.

The reason this works is that it allows me to control for one thing at a time. In general, people are more inclined to buy things at lower prices, so if I offer something at a low-ish price and nobody buys it, then the thing itself could be the issue. I can tinker with the thing—the product itself, the marketing, etc.—to see if people start buying it. And once they start buying it, I can tinker with price to see how they respond.

If I start at a high price and nobody buys, it’s hard to know if the product itself is no good, or if my price is just too high.

The failure mode of starting with a too-low price is being inundated with lots and lots of sales and possibly having left money on the table for those initial sales.

The failure mode of starting with a too-high price is having zero sales and struggling to explain why nobody bought.

When you’re just getting started, every penny of revenue is precious, so I think it’s best to err on the side of too-low pricing.

Keep trying marketing and advertising channels until I find one that works

When I first started building this business, I would cast a wide net and monkey with lots of marketing channels at one time. That kind of worked, but it also left my time spread so thin that I did most of them poorly and never got much traction.

Now, I tend to focus on a single marketing channel for some time—anywhere from a week to a couple months—to see how it goes. If it gets traction, I invest more time there. If it doesn’t get traction, I just ignore it and move on to other stuff. I might re-visit a low-traction marketing channel later on, but I’m comfortable backburnering it for quite a while if it’s just not working.

I’ve heard Rob and Mike talk about this on the Startups for the Rest of Us podcast, but I’m not sure I’ve ever really taken it to heart. It’s a lot easier for me to see the wisdom in this approach now that I understand the sort of sunk costs my Dad and Stepmom must’ve abandoned to switch from flyers to the Yellow Pages. (Picture boxes and boxes of unused flyers sitting in a corner collecting dust while they try to find a way to pay that first Yellow Pages bill.)

The best example I have here is Quora. One day, a friend of mine sent me a link to a question he thought I could answer. I realized I could answer it pretty well, so I spent 30-45 minutes writing up a pretty good answer.

Once I figured out how Quora worked, I answered a question every day for a month or two. That one experiment helped me get my first-ever streak of at least one new email subscriber per day. That was a huge milestone for me, and I still get quite a bit of traffic from my Quora answers although I haven’t been active there in several months.

Flyers weren’t working, so my Dad and Stepmom cut their losses and invested in a new channel. That one channel was enough to build a 25-year business that no longer requires advertising of any kind.

“How’s that work?” All of their new business comes from referrals. All of it. How’s that for a flywheel?

Just what I needed

My big takeaway was this isn’t going to be easy. Looking back, I’m glad it hasn’t been easy. I thought I was figuring out how to sell more books, but I was learning how to build a business. The nice thing about that is I can reuse everything I’ve learned next time I start a business.

We had been going for almost 90 minutes when Dad said, “Ok, I gotta run. Midnight to 3 are my peak hours for getting in a groove.” He’s writing his next novel and had to get as much done as possible before work on Monday morning.

Coda: More background on my Dad and Stepmom’s business, and why this call was so important for me

My Dad and Stepmom have made a living from their small business for over 25 years. They bought a house, had more kids, and nearly doubled the size of the house with an addition they built themselves on nights and weekends after work. I helped them frame one of the walls. That is a trivial contribution, but shows you what I mean when I say “…an addition they built themselves…” They literally built another house onto the original one. After work. On nights and weekends.

“Ok, but lots of people do side projects on nights and weekends after work.” It’s true—I’ve been doing that for years. But my work was almost exclusively desk work, where I would do things like make trips to the kitchen for water once an hour as a way to get exercise.

Contrast this with their day job: Cleaning houses. You know how beat up you feel after an afternoon of cleaning your house? Imagine cleaning three, four, five houses a day, every day, five or six days a week. For more than 25 years.

Now imagine you head home at 6 o’clock, throw something in the microwave real quick, then go back outside to put down footers, frame walls, add insulation, build a roof on a new addition to your house. You work until you can’t go anymore, drop off to sleep for a few hours, and wake up to go clean houses again.

When they finished the addition, they started creating—writing, drawing—on the same schedule.

So that should give you a pretty good sense where my Dad is coming from in this conversation.

The state of my business when I had this conversation with my Dad

As for me? Well, things were intense. This conversation happened about five months after I quit my day job to publish Fearless Salary Negotiation and take a shot at building a business around it.

By the time I had this chat with my Dad, I had published and launched the book, but not much else. I was mid-way through building the video courses to accompany the book, and it was grueling work. The entire process took about 10 weeks, working seven days a week. Most of the work was extremely tedious.

When I had a day job, that meant a paycheck every two weeks. That paycheck was confirmation that something was working. It’s constant feedback that the previous two weeks had value to someone, and here’s my cut of that value. One thing about turning side projects into full-time work is that it’s easy to feel adrift because I rarely have that kind of feedback.

My situation was particularly challenging because I was in “create” mode, which meant making the things I hoped would bring in money some day. Yes, the book was out there, but the bigger stuff I thought could bring in real income didn’t even exist yet. I had to make it. And making things always takes longer than I expect.

Sometimes, I get some good feedback—a good book launch, for example—but most of the time, I toil away with no feedback at all. Actually, that’s not entirely true. Any time I look at my bank balance, I get feedback: I had less money one day than the previous day; my savings was slowly drying up. That’s the opposite of the feedback I had with that bi-weekly paycheck from my day job.

So when I had this chat with my Dad, I felt lower than I had felt since quitting my job almost five months earlier. I felt really low. I wondered if I was just a fool, spending my savings and setting myself back for no good reason.

That call couldn’t have come at a better time.

Lessons learned from my Dad and Stepmom’s business

  • Give it time However much time you think it will take multiplied by 10 is a good starting point.
  • Solve the biggest pain points first Their onboarding is designed to address the biggest pain points first while allowing them to learn more about the client’s needs before taking them on and setting a recurring price.
  • More customers is probably better than fewer customers The best model for them was a monthly recurring services model with more customers as opposed to fewer customers on a weekly recurring schedule. This helped them reduce risk, work with higher-quality customers, and bring in more revenue.
  • Charge more Charging higher prices for monthly engagements improves their margins and reduces customer attrition risk.
  • Try lots of marketing channels to see what works for your business Test, test, test advertising and marketing channels. If one isn’t working, try another. If one is working, hunker down there for a while.
  • Minimize fixed costs early, and you’ll be profitable sooner Fixed costs—gas and time—were their greatest business expenses, and the business model that worked for them also happened to minimize those expenses—not a coincidence.