I couldn't see through all the snow spraying me in the face, so I just closed my eyes and waited for impact. Another skier was trying to stop before he ran me over, and he barely missed me. I had fallen - again - and couldn’t get up.
This was my first ski lesson. It was not going well.
Even better, the skier trying to avoid me was my good friend and instructor, Scott. He was much better than I was and he didn’t have much patience for teaching a newbie how to ski.
I would just sort of point myself down the mountain and try to maintain some control while zipping down in a straight line. When I eventually got to the bottom, I would either coast to a stop or intentionally wipe out to avoid hitting anyone.
It was awful, and I was content to never ski again.
Then my friends convinced me to give it one more shot, on powder this time. So I'm heading to Colorado next week to try again. They insist it’ll be a lot more fun than I remember.
It's a big investment—time and money—for something that could turn out to be really un-fun. So I put on my "learn a new thing, even if it might be unpleasant" hat and started doing some research.
I found this fantastic video on YouTube—it's exactly what I needed:
What impressed me most is how the instructor anticipates almost every fear that I have about skiing. "How do I turn?" "What if I fall?" "What if I accidentally end up on a slope that's uncomfortably steep?"
He's been teaching for so long that he's heard all of those concerns before. His list of "10 beginner lessons" probably came directly from hundreds of terrified students who have said, "What if I fall? How do I get up again?!" as they pictured themselves stuck on the side of a mountain, people zipping by as they struggle to stand up, for hours and hours and hours.
After watching that short video, I have enough confidence to give it a shot. I'm still going to take lessons the first day, but I'm a lot less worried about embarrassing myself than I was before.
Most people feel the same way about getting a raise. Maybe they tried it once before, but it didn't go very well. So they gave up and decided to just wait for their next raise to come along whenever it happens to come along.
Sometimes, they don’t even get that far—the idea of asking for a raise and having to defend their request may be so daunting that they never even try.
Does that sound familiar?
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